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Also a 90 day no sex rule seems pretty weird to me.
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Real Live College Guy Joel: Just be blunt about it, like your first paragraph, "hey thanks for the offer, but I'm not into that, see ya. Don't have an account? No, I normally used Tinder just to meet new people, but sometimes it leads to hook-ups.
Because it pays off for them so much of the time, it's just their habit to not take 'No' for an answer. Now I was just biding my time, hoping to get him out without having to be too harsh.
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The harder a guy chases, the less attraction she will feel toward him. I usually just ghost those people. One girl, who preferred to remain anonymous, admitted to having a harsh rejection style and shared her tips for reforming your method. FYI, bars are common hookup places, not that you can't hookup a relationship there but it's not exactly easy. Honestly, I'd rather have a relationship over a series of awkward, fumbly, how-do-we-proceed-now casual hookups.
Did you ever turn down a guaranteed hookup?
Also, the sex is better, percent of the time. Nothing wrong with that, I love those kinds of people. Those who live in more populated places are lucky, since the chances of you running into your own "that guy" are probably slim. She loves going on spontaneous road trips, then coming back and recording every detail in her journal. Like, as long as I'm with them, we could do anything and it'd be fine.
If they get mad and overreact because you don't want to have sex, that's on them for being an emotionally stunted manchild, and they need to get the fuck over themselves. The only [basis] sexual online dating sites liking each other is appearance and a little bit in your bio, so you know a person thinks you're hot or cute, but that's about it. Why did you choose the no hook-up policy on here?
I would tell them something along the turns down of what you said, and just reiterate that you are not interested in them that way. If things are going to get out of hand, let it be around people and not when you are alone. So that's what I'm going to address.
A committed relationship is much less debatable and easily defined as not something that can happen quickly.